It can be really normal for children to be reluctant to go to school occasionally, however school refusal is a more serious issue. It often peaks at times of transition such as the first year of school, end of primary school and early in high school and is more likely in anxious and depressed students. Significant adverse events can also contribute to school refusal.

The reasons for school refusal can be varied and complex and factors may include relationship issues, social isolation, issues at home, struggling with diagnosed or undiagnosed conditions and while not as common as we might think, it can occasionally be linked to bullying.

Some early signs of school refusal may include being late to school regularly, complaining of aches or pains to avoid school, pleading not to go to school, crying or being angry towards requests to go to school.

But the good news is that it can be overcome! It’s essential that both parents are aware and on the same page as is open communication with your child’s teacher or the school wellbeing team. Trying to work out what the underlying issue is and encouraging your child to attend school even when it’s tough is also crucial.

If more support is needed there are online and face to face services available which can be accessed through your school or GP.

Understanding school refusal | headspace

School refusal: children & teenagers | Raising Children Network